Come back to your breath....

(okay, so that's me in Scotland, not Seattle, but I think it captures the essence of this post!)






Two weeks ago, I went to see a girlfriend of mine in Seattle, and I just happened to arrive on the same evening that Geneen Roth was giving a book reading/discussion/signing at a local Seattle bookstore. I was soooo excited to hear her in person -- I've been a fan of Geneen for the past eight years (eight might not seem long to you, but it feels like ages to me in the sense of when I STOPPED dieting and abusing my body) -- therefore, I felt like a starstruck teenager! Geneen - this wise, brave woman - in person!

Geneen mentioned a few key phrases that evening which I've highlighted in quotation marks below -- then I've followed up with my own comments:

"Treat yourself with kindness & curiosity" -- Everytime I remind myself to be kind and curious with myself, whether it's relating to why I'm super irritable or anxious, or feeling like I could eat a whole damn cake, the edge softens. I breathe, I relax, I can forgive myself for feeling overwhelmed or fearful or anxious or whatever. I question what happened, I see what happened and why I feel xyz, then I can move on without negativity winning (or that whole damn cake - a slice will do, thank you!).

"We change the channel" or "Take the edge off" by stuffing, starving, binging, picking, purging, drinking, shopping, or fill-in-the-blank however one might run away from xyz. Why do we leave ourselves? Because we think it's too painful to sit, to breathe through it, to brainstorm how to change it, or even scarier, if we can't control it, we think we can't handle the unknown or how to "be" with it. Heavy stuff, I know. But, from my own journey, I truly believe there's a loveliness waiting to be discovered, waiting to be "tapped into", waiting to be brought to life. Just breathe and try being with it.

"Feelings don't kill us." -- You can say that again, and again, and again. And again. I'm not saying I have the answer, the magic key to ultimate bliss, to transcending and levitating. But, I do believe that the breath, staying with the breath, which helps you to stay with your sacred essence, helps you to get through the pain, the shit, the unknown. Come back to your breath, come back to your breath.

You might notice a consistent theme here. Breathe. Whether you struggle with anxiety or depression, are battling disordered eating or bad body thoughts, or simply have a to-do list that never seems to lighten, get in touch with your breath. I promise it's a major player in healing and thriving.

Lastly, to delve deeper into Geneen's latest bestseller, Women Food and God, I look forward to launching this fall's 4-week book club + yoga series starting this Saturday, October 30. While we'll discuss WFG, the bulk of our time will be spent breathing, moving, stretching, being and connecting. We have a couple spaces remaining -- don't miss out! If you're interested in connecting with your body and breath and spirit to help create a better relationship with food/body image, check out the following info! http://listentoyourbodyflow.blogspot.com/2010/09/book-club-yoga-read-talk-move-breathe.html

Book Club + Yoga -- read talk move breathe heal

Book Club + Yoga
4-week series – Fall 2010

What: Read and discuss Geneen Roth’s latest bestseller Women Food and God, then connect with yourself through a yoga/body awareness practice.

Who: Anyone who wants to explore her connection to her self, body and spirit. Anyone who wants to deepen or begin her journey of finding relief from the food/body wars. Caroline Gebhardt, Registered Yoga Teacher, will lead the group.

When: 4 consecutive Saturdays from 10a-12p – October 30 & November 6, 13, & 20

Where: Anxiety and Stress Management Institute
(1640 Powers Ferry Road, Building 9, Suite 100, Atlanta, GA 30067 - http://www.stressmgt.net/)

How: Through a series of reading, talking, meditating, moving and breathing, we’ll gently touch upon and nourish our true appetites and deep feelings found in our bodies, hearts and breath. No yoga experience necessary. This is not a therapy group but a safe group to explore your relationship with food, your self, body and spirit.

Why: In addition to embracing Geneen Roth’s famous non-dieting approach and her touching phrase "the world is on your plate", the practice of tuning into your body and breath through a luxurious dose of gentle movement and body awareness exercises builds a deep relationship with your sense of self, your essence, your life and your spirit. For book information, visit http://www.womenfoodandgod.com/

Cost: Limited space – Reserve your spot! Option 1) $100 total prepaid by 10/23/10; Option 2) $30/Saturday if space permits; Cash or check; Checks made payable to FLOW Training; Sorry, no refunds after 10/23; Please mail payment to:
FLOW Training LLC, 2266 Ithica Drive, Marietta, Georgia 30067

FYI: Please wear comfortable clothing. Bring your copy of WFG, a journal to take notes, a yoga mat, cushion for sitting, and a bottle of water!

Contact: If you want to reserve your space or have questions, please contact Caroline at caroline@mybodyflow.com or (404) 210-6752


FLOW Training, LLC
www.mybodyflow.com
Love Yourself, Move Your Body, Live Free

Love Your Belly, Trust Your Gut

Have you ever been in a situation where you feel a funny feeling deep in your gut, but because it's such a bummer, you ignore it? You go with the crowd, or with whom you think is your crowd, you stuff away that nagging feeling that's trying to guide you. Then, the inevitable bummer happens. And, all along, your gut was right. Your belly was trying to tell you the truth from the beginning? How can you learn to stand your ground, to stay firm in your truth, to stay planted in your peace?

Or, what happens when change happens? What happens when that bummer or disappointment sprouts, takes you for a wild ride and drops you off dizzy and grasping for air? What happens when the dance is something you haven't learned, what happens when you are forced to soak up a different perspective? How do you stand your ground in change? How do you stay true to yourself through change? How do you hope for peace in change?

To stay grounded, to stay true, to embrace peace within yourself and your surroundings are all things that movement and/or being-in-your-body can teach you. Through a variety of breathwork, yoga- and Pilates-inspired movement, and gentle guidance within a safe environment, you can learn to stay grounded through change, through the dance of life.

How so? Come to my free workshop this Sunday. See details below. And, stay tuned for more workshop/group movement experiences!

Dance, when you're broken open. Dance, if you've torn the bandage off. Dance in the middle of the fighting. Dance in your blood. Dance, when you're perfectly free. ~ Rumi

Love Your Body Month - 2 free workshops!

Love Your Body Month is almost here (officially starting Sunday, February 1)! Atlanta's very own Eating Disorders Information Network organizes an array of events throughout the month of February to celebrate and honor loving your body. Please click here to see February's events: http://myedin.org/index.php?id=76&monthArg=1&yearArg=2009

Two workshops I'm cohosting:

Sunday, February 8, 10a-12p

"Let Your Body Tell its Story", which incorporates "writing with the body" and NIA, a form of movement to connect the body with the mind/emotions/spirit. Sandy Bramlett, M.Ed., a Nia teacher, will lead the movement portion of the workshop, and Caroline Correll, journalist and mind/body trainer, will lead the writing portion of the workshop. 10:00 am- 12 pm at Seminole Studio, 675 Seminole Avenue NE (in the Highland Building), Atlanta, GA 30307. Contact Debi Demare, EDIN Volunteer, at debidemare@comcast.net. The event is free, though donations will be accepted.

Sunday, February 15, 3-5pm

Join Megan McSwain, MA LAPC, and Caroline Correll, fitness/movement trainer, at the lululemon showroom on Sunday, Feb. 15, 2009, from 3-5pm, to celebrate "Love Your Body Month". Learn to tune into your body's intuition through gentle movement, and express your spirit through art. Some supplies will be provided, but please bring a yoga mat and any special art supplies. Free, donations welcome, proceeds toward EDIN (www.myedin.org). Questions: caroline@mybodyflow.com or 404.210.6752 Address: lululemon showroom ~ 1409 North Highland Ave., Suite F, Atlanta, GA 30306 (next to FOOD 101, across from Doc Chey's)

Hope you can make it to these events - no need to RSVP. Come comfortable and ready to treat yourself kindly. ;)

Free Workshop - Sunday, January 11, 2009!!!

Resolve to Love Your Body in 2009:

Set kind intentions for your body and spirit through movement and art! Join Megan McSwain, MA LAPC, and Caroline Correll, fitness/movement trainer, at the lululemon showroom on Sunday, January 11, 2009, from 3-5pm, for gentle movement combined with art therapy.

Some supplies will be provided, but please bring a yoga mat and any special art supplies. Free, donations welcome.

Questions/RSVP: caroline@mybodyflow.com or 404.210.6752

Address: lululemon showroom ~ 1409 North Highland Ave., Suite F, Atlanta, GA 30306

(next to FOOD 101, across from Doc Chey's)

*free* January workshop

Resolve to Love Your Body in 2009:
Set kind intentions for your body and spirit through movement and art!

Join Megan McSwain, MA LAPC, and Caroline Correll, fitness/movement trainer, at the lululemon showroom on Sunday, January 11, 2009, from 3-5pm, for gentle movement combined with art therapy. Some supplies will be provided, but please bring a yoga mat and any special art supplies. Free, donations welcome.

Questions/RSVP: caroline@mybodyflow.com or 404.210.6752

Address: lululemon showroom ~ 1409 North Highland Ave., Suite F, Atlanta, GA 30306 (next to FOOD 101, across from Doc Chey's)

EDIN workshop

Writing with the Body: Words and Movement
Monday, July 21, 2008
7-8pm
EDIN’s Decatur office:
124 Church Street, Decatur, GA 30030
*free

Join FLOW Training for a workshop
combining gentle movement and writing.
Drawing or coloring is also an option.
Practice tuning into your mind-body connection.
Let your body and your heart speak.

*Bring your journal and yoga mat.

Connect with your body, connect with yourself, connect with others. FLOW Training offers a variety of fitness training and workshops focusing on connecting the body, self, breath and community. For more information:

FLOW Training
404.210.6752
carolineflow@gmail.com
www.mybodyflow.com

*For more information about EDIN (Eating Disorders Information Network), please visit www.myedin.org

Words & Movement: Let Your Body Tell Its Story

Words & Movement: Let Your Body Tell Its Story
Awaken Awareness, Conclude with Compassion, Dance through Life

Everyone’s body has a story to tell. As people transform into adults, they tend to lose touch with their inherent creativity and expressive nature. Somewhere along the way, most people lose their natural connection to their body and stay stuck in their heads. Imagine if everyone lived in their body and loved it! During the month of February, EDIN (Eating Disorders Information Network) is hosting Love Your Body Month. There will be a variety of events and workshops offered, which are described in detail on their Web site, www.myedin.org. One of the events planned for the month is a workshop that will allow people to re-awaken their connection to their bodies through movement and writing. The event is free and will be held February 9 from 10:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the YWCA at 957 N. Highland Ave. NE. Sandy Bramlett, a Nia blackbelt instructor, will lead the movement portion of the workshop, and Caroline Correll, journalist and mind/body trainer, will lead the writing portion. Everyone is invited to let their body tell its story. For more information, please email me: carolineflow@gmail.com