Move to Feel Good

Finally -- Leaves are covering the sidewalk! I snapped this yesterday on my afternoon walk. Gone are the blistering hot days, sunscreen ALL over the body and air conditioner. Here are the hoodies, scarves and warm lattes. Fall has finally arrived, an opportunity to feel renewed and excited about the holiday season! And, in the body sense: the change of a season provides a sense of renewal and possibility and presence in your body.

On Sunday, I met with a dear mentor of mine who reminded me, once again, of the importance of exercise as a mood-lifter and life enricher. She endured a horrific tragedy three years ago when her daughter was senselessly murdered in New Orleans. She said daily walking and yoga carried her out of a deep depression and back into a fulfilling life. The familiar light in her eyes and her excitement for learning, teaching and sharing showed me she meant it.

Whether you're a lifelong exerciser or just contemplating everyday whether to move or not, I believe movement, or physical activity, or whatever-you-wanna-call-it, can bring you back in your body and back into a richly present life. Just for now, or just for your next bout of movement, forget the attachments of weight loss or calories, and move to feel good.

Now, try this: Stand up with feet hip-width apart, and take some deep belly breaths, relax your shoulders, soften your knees, take your arms up over your head and wide down the sides of your body several times....Stand still for three deep breaths, soften your gaze....Now, reach high and wide again, fold forward from the hips and hold feeling the rush of blood warming your head and calming your mind....Slowly roll up, stand wide and reach your arms wide. Hinge forward from your hips again, fold all the way down with your fingertips touching the floor, and begin a gentle lunge side to side to open up the legs....Stay on one side and come down to all fours (hands and knees). Do cat cow, inhaling as your head and tail move toward the sky, exhale as you arch your back like a cat. Then, rest in child's pose by letting your hips rest on your heels. Relax your shoulders and be conscious of your breath for a minute.

Note how you feel after just those few short movements and breaths. Wherever you are in your body journey, what if you committed to letting your body have at least this gentle movement everyday? How might it make you feel? How can you be in your body more, everyday?

I believe there's a difference between force and commitment. If we force ourselves to move (aka: exercise), we race through the routine of choice counting down the minutes, trying to see how hard we can go, how intense we can make it for the sake of getting it done or burning the calories. It becomes black and white. All or nothing. If we commit ourselves to move, we allow wiggle room to choose what to do -- but we do it, even if it's for 5 or 10 or 15 minutes instead of the standard hour. If we commit, we can tune into our bodies and say, "hmm, what am I feeling like today?" Perhaps an exhilarating walk followed by stretching, a ballet or kickbox class, or a swim or gentle yoga, or an afternoon at the park with the kids and dog.

As you enter the busy holiday season going to parties, shopping nonstop, cooking for others, traveling to see family and friends, practice committing a few minutes everyday to get in your body. See where it takes you. See how moving the body makes you feel. Explore, tune in, be, and connect.

(And, hey, napping is a good thing too. Take it from my baby kitty Kali - it's all about balance. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.....)