Come back to your breath....

(okay, so that's me in Scotland, not Seattle, but I think it captures the essence of this post!)






Two weeks ago, I went to see a girlfriend of mine in Seattle, and I just happened to arrive on the same evening that Geneen Roth was giving a book reading/discussion/signing at a local Seattle bookstore. I was soooo excited to hear her in person -- I've been a fan of Geneen for the past eight years (eight might not seem long to you, but it feels like ages to me in the sense of when I STOPPED dieting and abusing my body) -- therefore, I felt like a starstruck teenager! Geneen - this wise, brave woman - in person!

Geneen mentioned a few key phrases that evening which I've highlighted in quotation marks below -- then I've followed up with my own comments:

"Treat yourself with kindness & curiosity" -- Everytime I remind myself to be kind and curious with myself, whether it's relating to why I'm super irritable or anxious, or feeling like I could eat a whole damn cake, the edge softens. I breathe, I relax, I can forgive myself for feeling overwhelmed or fearful or anxious or whatever. I question what happened, I see what happened and why I feel xyz, then I can move on without negativity winning (or that whole damn cake - a slice will do, thank you!).

"We change the channel" or "Take the edge off" by stuffing, starving, binging, picking, purging, drinking, shopping, or fill-in-the-blank however one might run away from xyz. Why do we leave ourselves? Because we think it's too painful to sit, to breathe through it, to brainstorm how to change it, or even scarier, if we can't control it, we think we can't handle the unknown or how to "be" with it. Heavy stuff, I know. But, from my own journey, I truly believe there's a loveliness waiting to be discovered, waiting to be "tapped into", waiting to be brought to life. Just breathe and try being with it.

"Feelings don't kill us." -- You can say that again, and again, and again. And again. I'm not saying I have the answer, the magic key to ultimate bliss, to transcending and levitating. But, I do believe that the breath, staying with the breath, which helps you to stay with your sacred essence, helps you to get through the pain, the shit, the unknown. Come back to your breath, come back to your breath.

You might notice a consistent theme here. Breathe. Whether you struggle with anxiety or depression, are battling disordered eating or bad body thoughts, or simply have a to-do list that never seems to lighten, get in touch with your breath. I promise it's a major player in healing and thriving.

Lastly, to delve deeper into Geneen's latest bestseller, Women Food and God, I look forward to launching this fall's 4-week book club + yoga series starting this Saturday, October 30. While we'll discuss WFG, the bulk of our time will be spent breathing, moving, stretching, being and connecting. We have a couple spaces remaining -- don't miss out! If you're interested in connecting with your body and breath and spirit to help create a better relationship with food/body image, check out the following info! http://listentoyourbodyflow.blogspot.com/2010/09/book-club-yoga-read-talk-move-breathe.html