Getting in Your Body

Last time I wrote, I recommended the 10-minute rule. Keep that tip in mind, but I think I forgot to mention an important thought!

We want to exercise for many reasons: mental clarity, bone density, muscle endurance and strength, stress relief, the end-of-the-day exhale, and sometimes (hopefully, most of the time) for just plain fun!

However, if you sometimes or always lean toward exercise - or more intense exercise than your body needs - due to guilt, anxiety (over not skipping a workout), and/or to purge calories, take a step back. Besides being sick with a fever/aches, those are the most important reasons not to exercise. If your reason to exercise includes those listed above, take a moment to be kinder to yourself.

Your body knows best. Sometimes it takes a while to "get in your body" and let go of unhealthy reasons to exercise. And, yes, it can take years, but when you're dedicated, each day brings new insight!

The Rules v. Getting in Your Body
The Rules: Even the experts can only guesstimate how much exercise each person requires. If you have a desk job, you might need more than 30 minutes three times a week. If you have three kids, two dogs, and serve as the maid/cook/mower/clown/gardner, you might very well be getting in enough exercise naturally. If you have a sales job and travel city to city, it can be downright difficult to commit to a gym in one city.

Getting in Your Body: With all variables aside, let's practice tuning into your energy. Some weeks are emotionally draining. Some days are jam packed with meetings and appointments, it's downright impossible to make it to your favorite 7pm Cardio Salsa class. Some weeks are filled with free time, that could very well provide two-three-four hours of workout time (too much!). Some days, your body feels like sludge due to the past two days' workouts.

Then, sometimes you need grounding through yoga and/or resistance training. Sometimes you need to shake out buzzy energy through aerobics or running/walking. Sometimes you need that Pilates class to help remind you of the strength of your gut. Sometimes you need to inhale the greenery during a peaceful hike.

Might sound like a lot of information, a lot of learning, a lot of listening, but it's so worth it. Aim to discover what works best for you, your body, on a daily basis. As always, one day at a time. We can all create a healthy balance by listening, stumbling, getting back up, listening again, and honoring the body's messages. Treat your body kindly - forget exercise as a chore or punishment. Your body knows best and will take care of you - all the energy you feed it, and all the energy you expend. Your body can handle it beautifully. Trust it.

***********************************************************

And, you know what? I wrote this tonight because I tuned into my body, and it said, "You need quiet time tonight." I've definitely battled the guilt before and wanted to "stay on track" - oh yeah, I've been there. But, I'm to the point that peace and mindfulness are way more important. And, being kind to myself feels good. It's not so foreign.

Atlanta's beaming with 70 degree temperatures this week - absolutely glorious outside. I actually ended training clients earlier than I usually do on Thursdays, but the past two weeks have been challenging in many ways. So, I could have forced myself on a walk or taken a great hip-hop step class. But, I needed this down time. I took a shower and slipped into my pajamas at 7pm. What a treat!

I'm finally at a place that I feel peace over the last two weeks' chaos - those darn life curveballs. But, now I can exhale. How great to read, and write, and reflect, and let my body, my self, rest in the quiet.