Book Club + Yoga -- read talk move breathe heal

Book Club + Yoga
4-week series – Fall 2010

What: Read and discuss Geneen Roth’s latest bestseller Women Food and God, then connect with yourself through a yoga/body awareness practice.

Who: Anyone who wants to explore her connection to her self, body and spirit. Anyone who wants to deepen or begin her journey of finding relief from the food/body wars. Caroline Gebhardt, Registered Yoga Teacher, will lead the group.

When: 4 consecutive Saturdays from 10a-12p – October 30 & November 6, 13, & 20

Where: Anxiety and Stress Management Institute
(1640 Powers Ferry Road, Building 9, Suite 100, Atlanta, GA 30067 - http://www.stressmgt.net/)

How: Through a series of reading, talking, meditating, moving and breathing, we’ll gently touch upon and nourish our true appetites and deep feelings found in our bodies, hearts and breath. No yoga experience necessary. This is not a therapy group but a safe group to explore your relationship with food, your self, body and spirit.

Why: In addition to embracing Geneen Roth’s famous non-dieting approach and her touching phrase "the world is on your plate", the practice of tuning into your body and breath through a luxurious dose of gentle movement and body awareness exercises builds a deep relationship with your sense of self, your essence, your life and your spirit. For book information, visit http://www.womenfoodandgod.com/

Cost: Limited space – Reserve your spot! Option 1) $100 total prepaid by 10/23/10; Option 2) $30/Saturday if space permits; Cash or check; Checks made payable to FLOW Training; Sorry, no refunds after 10/23; Please mail payment to:
FLOW Training LLC, 2266 Ithica Drive, Marietta, Georgia 30067

FYI: Please wear comfortable clothing. Bring your copy of WFG, a journal to take notes, a yoga mat, cushion for sitting, and a bottle of water!

Contact: If you want to reserve your space or have questions, please contact Caroline at caroline@mybodyflow.com or (404) 210-6752


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www.mybodyflow.com
Love Yourself, Move Your Body, Live Free

Looking Within v. NAAO

I'm a huge "do-not-diet" advocate. I'm also a huge believer that eating issues (overeating, undereating), food issues (you-name-it), and exercise abuse (or lack of exercise) issues, all settle much, much, much deeper than "laziness", or "she's just a control freak", or "too many vending machines followed by McDonald's". If those three examples truly explained overeating, undereating and everything-in-between, don't you think we could Move On?

When I got home tonight, I flipped on Campbell Brown's show on CNN featuring MeMe Roth, Founder and President of NAAO (National Action Against Obesity). If you watched, or if you're familiar with her antics, you know MeMe's claims of tough love for anyone who's overweight. In a nutshell, "stop eating junk, move, and for goodness sakes, have some self discipline!"

Now, if you visit the following link highlighting her philosophies ( http://www.actionagainstobesity.com/NationalActionAgainstObesity/Founder.html), you might find some decent points like the rising problem of obesity, dangerous food marketing, and eating a balanced diet. Then, she slides in that obesity is basically a self-inflicted illness. I could write a book here, but I won't.

Look, I make a living helping others to "listen to their bodies" by moving (aka exercising). I'm obviously an advocate of a well-balanced diet, consistent doses of various physical activities, and proper rest. But, from personal and professional experience, claiming that some whippersnapper self-discipline and a 4-mile daily run will guarantee you a thin, trim, fit, svelte 20s body-for-life is bologna.

Sure, we could cut back on the regular fast-food meals or the daily vending machine snacks filled with sugar. Sure, we could all step away from our computers and televisions and take the dogs on a walk. Sure, we could try to tax all the "fat" in attempts to solve all our obesity and health insurance problems. But, if it's too good to be true, you know the rest....

If you peel back the initial layers of health education (a balanced diet, listening to your body's signals, regular exercise and sleep, stress reduction), you'll find that a) some people are quite happy and healthy not being a certain size, and/or b) obesity can likely be a sign of emotional eating and sometimes categorized as a clinically diagnosed eating disorder(s).

I have a hard time with MeMe's light-switch notion that people should be more disciplined in controlling their weight and that people CHOOSE unhealthy lifestyles. Lucky for her ego, she oozes with self control and righteousness otherwise she might not be preaching.

Let me reiterate - Let's get healthy. Let's educate ourselves. But, let's also dig deeper to find out why we have food issues. Or, drinking issues, or shopping issues, or gossiping issues, or gambling issues, or relationship issues, etc. Or, how about sense-of-self or spirit issues?

Instead of diets, or drinking, or credit cards, let's get real and fill ourselves with self-care and healthy, supportive relationships. I know it's a lot to ask, but looking within toward the tender places might just be the richest thing you will ever find.



*If you feel you need some guidance in finding a therapist to help you with these issues, please feel free to contact me.

Inner Movement Mama

I'm sure you've heard the term "your inner parent" - the adult part of yourself that should ultimately take care of you, all of your feelings, all of your moods, all of your responsibilities. That's a BIG job, especially when feelings span from one end of the rainbow to the other and to-do lists seem to never ease. But, she is always there ready for your requests.

Since I'm a personal movement trainer, here's where I coin the phrase "Inner Movement Mama". Might sound a little silly, but take a few moments to think what that could mean, how it could help you.

Do you often battle with body image? Do you have guilt on the days you don't exercise? Do you wonder what days you should incorporate weight training? Do you feel anxious that you're not stretching enough? Do you wonder how much cardio you should squeeze into your week? Do you ever purge through exercise or otherwise? Do you struggle with any sort of emotional eating? Do you have a solid sense of listening to your body? Do you know the wonders and satisfaction and peace of deep breathing? Do you stay on track only to fall off after a too-strict two weeks? Do you turn to Shape/Fitness/Oxygen/Cosmopolitan/People magazines to read about the latest diet fads? Do you stare at the newest diets wondering when in the heck you'll get used to those bland tasting foods (and how in the world you won't faint from such low calories)?

Does my list of question after question above sound a bit like the tape in your head that never stops spinning when you are trying your absolute best to eat and exercise "right"?

I understand. I truly understand. And, since I've done a lot of my own work (*Oh, and I still am along with everyone else...), I've discovered a way to help me tune into my body. There are days I feel my bones and muscles and cells and spirit talking to me. I know exactly what I need. Maybe a heart-pumping step class. Maybe some flow yoga. Maybe to push and pull some dumbbells and resistance bands. Maybe rest.

And then, there are days I am stressed or anxious or exhausted. You know what I mean. Those are the days I feel like the 4-year-old girl who wants comfort, no worries, no taxes, no difficult situations! Yet, I know better than that. And, while I might be swarming with yuck feelings of anxiety, I also know that my mind knows what's best. I know that while my body might feel like stomping her feet, my mind knows how to collect some information about my physical state and lead me to where I need to go.

*Perhaps I've been teaching a lot of yoga to clients and haven't had a chance to get in some aerobic movment in a few days. While I'm feeling flexible and calm, I'm feeling a little low energy one afternoon, and my Inner Movement Mama comes in to say, "Take a long walk or a great class - it'll amp up your energy and mood once you get moving."

*Perhaps I've been subbing a lot of classes lately, and I need a break. But, it's sunny outside, and some old stuff comes up saying, "it's sunny, get some exercise". My Inner Movement Mama comes in and says, "open your door, smell the fresh air, get comfortable and grounded on your floor, breathe deeply, maybe take a nap."

*Perhaps I'm anxious with a very nervous stomach or indigestion. I'm having a hard time listening to my hunger/full signals so I maybe eat too much or not enough to sustain me through a long morning of work. My Inner Movement Mama comes in and says, "You've got hurt in your heart. Let me take care. You know you need to fuel yourself with just the right amount - You might not be able to detect hunger/full signals now, so take an objective point of view to what your body needs to thrive - give yourself a break from always having to tune into your signals 24/7. Your mind can take over here and there too. Feed yourself enough but not too much, and breathe." Hallelujah! Sometimes my common sense can actually do the work!

Next time you're a little confused about your next daily step to exercising or eating, talk to your Inner Movement Mama. I promise you she's wise and will always be there to pick you up when you fall.

Happy Weekend!